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Sex Between Older Men and Much Younger Women
The reality is that sexual desire does not stop once
a man reaches the age of fifty. Most of these men are
very happy to have a sex partner their own age or close
to it. But, there is a percentage of these men, who
are looking for sex and possibly a life partner who
is much younger than them. This is especially true when
men are trying to meet, then date, through the Internet.
In the every day world it is very difficult to start
a relationship between older men and much younger women
but for some reason that barrier appears greatly diminished
if the
relationship starts through the Internet. People seem
less likely to be concerned about the age difference
and love begins to flourish, which often times leads
to marriage. Only after they physically get together
or are married, that problems begin to crop up.
There is no doubt that the younger woman always makes
her partner feel younger. During the first months of
the relationship or marriage, it seems as though the
man can beat all sexual records. The question is, how
long will he stay in the same sexual peak once the honeymoon
is over and life returns to a normal routine?
With age a variety of physical and emotional changes
happen to the human body. A fact of nature that has
nothing to do with our wishes. Unfortunately we cannot
cheat mother nature but that does not mean the sex drive
disappears. What it does suggest is the approach to
sex will often change.
The successful sex life of these couples is enhanced
by the manner of approach. Successful couples have taken
the time to learn the secrets and tricks that allows
them to survive the difficult moments. If both partners
really love each other they will develop their own form
of Karma Sutra. But in doing so, they have to trust
each other and share their problems and sexual desires,
openly.
Older men need to understand that although they probably
cannot maintain the same fast and furious pace as they
did in their twenties, their life experiences should
more than make up for the physical aspect of love making.
Older men usually have more control over the physical
and mental state of their being and a much greater knowledge
of what elicits pleasure for a woman. This "experience
factor" grants them the ability of understanding
the female body to stimulate and satisfy a woman which
in turn should culminate in prolonged sexual stimulation
prior to orgasm.
It can be a very exciting surprise for a young woman,
whose only sexual experience may have been young men
her own age. Women often complain that they need more
foreplay in their love making and not all of them get
it from young men.
Most men after 50 also need some kind of foreplay to
achieve an erection. So, they turn this kind of situation
into win-win arena for both! For older men, this foreplay
can be very exiting as well and helps him to prepare
his body for sex. Surprisingly, he can do it much quicker
then he can expect, because playing and touching a young
woman's body will arouse his ability to perform sex,
dramatically!
Marina Smiley is the author of some of the most popular
eBooks about Russian-Western marriages. These eBooks
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